I Don’t Want To Waste My Time – Harmful Dating Mindsets
January 14, 2023 No Comments
The Time-Wasting Mindset I don’t want to waste my time is a phrase I often hear from people with behaviors or mindsets that are not
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How is your love story?
What chapter are you on? Is it the chapter where you feel disillusioned by relationships? Do you feel you simply need to resolve that you will be alone and better off that way? Are you singing misty blues and don’t know that you can stop?
Your feelings are so valid. And you are not alone! Many people feel this way.
Now imagine what it feels like to fall in love. Imagine where everything is fresh, and you feel all kinds of sparkly inside. You can’t wait to hear from your partner. You don’t want the night to end.
Would you want that instead?
My clients want to feel sparkly. They feel ready to write a new chapter in their love story.
Let’s create the mindset and tactics to move you from where you are today into the future you want to have. Whether you’re looking to find a date worth keeping or navigate a divorce or breakup successfully, Ms. Kari can help.
(Note: I am not a lawyer and do not provide legal services. However, I am a mediator and can help you negotiate the best outcome for your property dispersment, financial support, or parenting plan.)
A relationship coach (for dating or divorce) can truly be the turning point in your journey. Think of your coach as your personal guide. It’s important to know that a great coach will not tell you what to do. They’ll help you weigh the paths available to you (and some you may not have thought of) and help you decide which is the best one to take.
A great coach can’t do the work for you. It’s important to understand your role in a coaching journey. In order to see progress and achieve the results you want, you have to do the work. A coach is not a therapist (or an attorney); a great coach gives you the practical tools you need to make the decisions that move you forward. If you’re not ready to make changes, a coach can’t help you.
If you’re looking to make exponential growth quickly and you’re ready to do the work, a coach can help. In dating, a coach may save you the pain of experiencing 27 truly awful relationships before finding the right one. A coach can help you see possibilities or strategies you may not realize even exist. You can’t sit on the couch and wait for someone to show up at your front door. (No matter how hot the UPS guy is.)
It’s time to get off the merry-go-round and get started on your journey to a happy relationship.
I’ve been where you are. I’ve been through a painful divorce of my own and learned how to navigate a string of first dates that lead (finally!) to finding the right one. My life changes always hit hard—very hard—and they hurt. Once I found my footing, I knew just surviving wasn’t good enough. I had to learn everything the hard way, and I want to make it easier for you to find your footing and thrive. I love seeing people have fun, define who they are, and create a love life that’s fulfilling.
With my background in HR and mediation, I’ve discovered that dating is a lot like the hiring process. A relationship is a role you’re looking to fill, and you don’t want to fill it with just anyone.
I want to help you thrive. I want to help people navigate the pitfalls I encountered in my journey. If you’re ready to get a date worth keeping, or you’re looking for practical help to navigate your divorce, I look forward to chatting with you soon.
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